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Can Yoga Benefit Your Relationship?

Yoga is fantastic for self care, both physically and mentally. Yet, practicing yoga can also benefit your relationship with your partner as well! I hear it all the time “Relationships are hard work” they can be yet when you take care of yourself it makes everything else easier.

Something that helps you to regain your strength and ground you back to your true self is Yoga!

Seeking authentic intimacy with your partner, you open yourself up to give pieces of you to them. While this can strengthen your relationship, it can also be very ungrounding to your own energy. By practicing yoga, youll be able to focus on your self-care, which will in turn help create a healthy relationship for you and your partner.

Self-care is very important to a healthy relationship because it allows you to still feel connected to your true self. I notice that many people loose themselves when they enter a relationship. Here are some reasons why you should continue practicing yoga to benefit your relationship!

Yoga Grounds You

Things can get heated when you are in a relationships. In order to stay calm, yoga can ground you. This way you do not fly off the handle when things start to get rough and you say and do things you might not mean.

Beach yoga sunYoga Connects You to Your True Self

Being in a relationship can be challenging since you have to deal with another person, their needs, wants and especially their moods. Buy yoga keeps you connected to yourself so that you are less likely to be judgey, reactive or even defensive in your relationship.

Yoga Gets You Out of Your Comfort Zone

If you are hesitant about anything in your relationship, yoga will help you get out of your comfort zone so that you can experience true intimacy with your partner. It helps nudge you to get uncomfortable and outside of your head so that you can truly give yourself entirely to your relationship.

Yoga Opens Up Your Compassion

By practicing yoga, you will be more open to compassion. When Your relationship is in need of compassion you will be able to open your heart. You will b e less likely to get mad over the little things and will have more compassion for your parther, thus strengthening your relationship in general.

Yoga Makes You Feel Stronger

Love has it’s ups and downs. Practicing yoga regularly will help you feel stronger than ever! You will be able to weather the inevitable. Make sure to always utilize supplements to help enhance our internal health.

Yoga Makes You More Grateful!

Yoga has a way of making you more grateful for everything in your life. You will feel in tune with yourself and your universe. You will see your partner in grateful light and be happy to have them. Gratitude will allow your relationship to grow and evolve into something amazing!

Yoga Gets Your Endorphins Flowing

Yoga and exercise in general will get your endorphins flowing so that you feel better. This allows you to be able to contribute more to your relationship so that you are in a better mood all the time. You will be genuinely happy and yoga can keep that positive feeling going strong.

Yoga Makes You Feel Great

When practicing yoga you feel good and when you feel good, your partner and relationship flourish. You will be practicing self-care while also nurturing your relationship at the same time.

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How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours – Wayne Dyer

 

Relationships are everywhere. Work, home, pets, friends, family… Everywhere you look, turn, and run there are relationships there to support you or there are relationships there to dethrone you.

Something that has been difficult for me to understand and grasp fully, is that you can never control the other person. You may not understand or know how the other person is feeling. You can’t always understand why the person does what they do. You can’t dictate how they react. Most importantly You Cannot Change The Past.
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Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home.. it’s your responsibility to love it, or change it

-Chuck Palahniuk

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It broke me.

I kept going back and kept thinking there was something wrong with me. I felt that this person, just like I was doing for them, had my best interest at heart.

I would only feel secure when he showed me affection. When it was absent I would spiral into deep dark depression thinking “What am I doing wrong to not receive his love?” Yet, as I look back his love was only empty promises, empty lines, empty “I love you’s”, “I will never leave you”, “You are everything to me”

Then, after the second time I caught him speaking to one of his exes, I realized how I was walking on eggshells. How I was living a fraction of my life. Most of it in fear. The other half in false hope. Every time we would break up, or I felt the strength to walk away, I would come back because I wanted to feel that love, appreciation, affection. Only to feel like I had made the worst decision and wondering if he was messaging anyone else.
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Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go – Hermann Hesse

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I remember the times we would separate or argue. I wasn’t able to eat, sleep, I felt scared, and I felt alone. I know I had so many people in my “corner” telling me how this was better for me and he had done me a favor. All I could think of was how desperate I felt to get him back or figure out why I wasn’t good enough for him.

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Finally the end…

It was December 2015, he was distant, abrasive, and short with me. He stayed out with “friends” and slept on the couch. The inevitable happened. He broke it off with me. I remember that Thursday night. Crying and begging him to work on things and that I was sorry for whatever I may have done. That Friday morning driving his kids to school saying goodbye for good, my things in tow.

Not realizing that this definitely a God send.
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There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go – Jessica Hatchigan

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So this is where I am – trying to make sense of things that don’t make sense. Working with a therapist and trying to use other outlets, such as blogging, to help release these negative thoughts and hopefully reaching someone else. Maybe shedding some light to others that are close to me. Which when reading this they will go “That is why you are doing that” It is me trying to be strong and transparient, loving and compassionate, supportive and brave for all those other struggling with similar situations.
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Four Health Benefits of Marriage

By Jenna Clark

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.

At times married life can be less than exciting and making you feel very testy towards your significant other. Yet, even when your partner is driving you up the wall, it turns out they might actually be improving your health.

It is true! Turns out that those that are married may have the advantage of health benefits over someone who is single. Now, that does not mean that tying the knot automatically creates a happier healthier you. Clearly divorce rates have sky rocketed. Though some studies show that relationships are at the root of finding joy.

 

“Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”
― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Health Benefits Of A Happy Marriage

Numero UnoLower Risk of Cardiovascular Disease. Considering heart disease is one of the main causes of death this is a pretty important factor.

Your stress levels will be lower. It may not seem like it at the time of an argument, but being married actually creates a hormonal change that directly affects stress levels.

Beat it Cancer! This is a bit dramatic yet equally as important, being married boosted survival rates of cancer patients in one study.

You will live longer! Finally, getting hitched could mean that you will live a longer life.

Downside of Marriage

Not to be all against singles by any means. There is one case which marriage doesn’t help: OBESITY. People who tend to be married suffer from higher rates of obesity than singles do. Now we all know obesity is connected to so many health concerns so this can create the opposite affect. It is always important to make healthy choices once you are married.

 

Final Thoughts

  • Being in a safe, stable marriage can help you live longer, reduce risk of heart disease and reduce stress levels.
  • For those with cancer, being in a healthy loving relationship can increase the odds of you living longer.
  • Con of relationships increases your chances of being obese. So make sure to adopt an active, healthy lifestyle and motivate each other!:)

What are some positive benefits within your relationship? Make sure to comment below and also check out How to Identify & Release a Toxic Relationship.

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The Narcissist doesn’t want your love, they don’t know what love is. They want your admiration and your obedience as a player in their fake make-believe world.

This is a topic that hits close to home. As I researched about human behavior, I realized that the Narcissist was someone I used to date. I noticed some of his characteristics that were alarming, yet was not strong enough to leave, I decided to write this blog post to hopefully help out others that may be in the situation I once was in.

To begin,narcissists lack the basics levels of empathy for others. This includes a constant need for validation, a willingness to control people, and a ruthlessness in getting their needs met. That being said, the narcissist thrives on other’s fear.. Narcissists haven’t learned that the only true power is love-of self, others and the universe. And if you have ever fallen in love with someone like this, you know how painful it can be. 

Now painful relationships can be blessings in disguise. They unwrap our deepest wounds for us to heal. They can free us by helping us reclaim our own power.

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So, how do you know for sure if you’re dealing with a narcissist? Here are 9 signs to look for:

  1. A narcissist will often call you “crazy” (and slowly start to convince you that you are!)  They are known to use “gaslighting,” which is a form of psychological abuse used to create anxiety and confusion. Which creates those to lower their own trust in themselves and their ability to discern what is real and what is healthy.
  2. He or she use your personal insecurities or struggles to make you feel not good enough. Personal insecurities that you may not have otherwise been aware of seem to be a constant source of tension and are often pointed out critically and insensitively.

and she was made to appear crazy by the man who drove her there

-r.h. Sin

3. You’re constantly being blamed. It is NEVER their fault! Narcissists don’t accept that they create their own reality. Instead, they are constantly hurt by your behavior and project the blame onto you. Their responses are triggered by unhealed wounds, so they’re trying to relieve pain, subconsciously, through harmful emotional abuse. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.

4. Are they hot and heavy in the beginning… The beginning of the relationship is like all of the scorching scenes in Sex and the City! They are all about you and the relationship seems like a fairy tale. We love being pursued and showered with attention by someone charismatic and charming. Whisk us away Prince!

5. Hot and cold. When they have your trust, they will flip on you, pull back, making you feel crazy. Vulnerability? Ha! That would shatter their poor ego.

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Narcissists will destroy your life and erode your self-esteem and do it with such stealth as to make you feel as YOU are the one that is letting them down.

6. Trophy Complex! Does your love interest seem to always come at the right time? Fixing problems like a hero or heroine? Do they have a sense of false image convincing everyone they are truly better than who they really are?

7. You start feeling obsessive, needy or codependent after spending time with this person. Seriously this one is a huge red flag and I know from experience. An em-path’s light is bright; highly sensitive individuals have a high love quotient. We are always there to love and support. Though if you are feeling obsessive, comparing, needy, codependent and definitely drained, JUMP SHIP!

8. Lashing out and behaving like the narcissist. You’re not being heard so we tend to lash out or become reactive in ways similar to the narcissist themselves. Scary!

9. They are genuinely damaged yet not open to healing. They are phenomenal at appearing they are damaged or need our help. It is not your job to save or fix someone! DO NOT FIX THEM!

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Why are we Attracted to Narcissists?

Well, for one, society does a wonderful job of glamorizing these personality types. The Narcissist is the “charmer.” Feeding off of drama and romanticizing over the pain of love.

Connection through pain is the new sexy. 

If you are attracted closely to Narcissistic patterns, You may have childhood trauma you need to heal.

As we grow, we attract partners who reflect our wounds until we heal them. Deep stuff I know, this we can go over in depth in another blog. We create relationships that mirror our past hurts so vividly that we can no longer ignore them.

These relationships show up over and over. They can be romantic or not. This is true when the relationship feels and has similarities to someone you have dated or been in contact with before yet it is a new relationship. 

Time to get down and dirty on healing those deep seeded pains. 

These are growing opportunities, which can allow us to heal so that we have the ability to move into relationships rooted in love and service.

If we are still trying to prove our worth, we attract narcissists.

How do we get out of this mess?

The way out of a narcissistic relationships is not easy, especially when there are deep feelings from your end. They are also manipulative. Yet, it begins with awareness, which if you are reading this I hope that is enough. Follow the awareness by taking responsibility for our actions and feelings learning how to love ourselves enough to LEAVE. What happens when we blame the narcissist for our pain is that we become even more needy and codependent. They will also make us feel bad about ourselves so that we feel we can never do better.

Blame keeps us trapped!

The narcissist is not responsible for our wounds. They may trigger our wounds. What we decide to do with this information is up to us. It is time to gain self love and rise above!

XoXo,
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I refuse to be subject to your mind games and lies. I will not play a part in your constant drama. You will not manipulate me, nor will you control me.

How do you spot a manipulator?

It started so easily and effortlessly. He was witty, thoughtful, charming, passionate and a professional liar. Yup! Liar! Yet, for some reason I could not walk away. I tried. It took me way to long to realize what the relationship was doing to me. Though when it ended, I felt so pure, free, and myself again.

So, how did this happen and why did I feel so poorly about myself? Here are some easy red flags to know you are dating a master manipulator and you need to get out before you loose yourself and it is too late!

  • This is probably the most prominent one I noticed once we separated. Not only did I never make plans with friends, which mind you I lost many through the years of being with him, my emotions were affected so greatly by how he showed me affection. I was ecstatic when he was loving and appreciative towards me. Yet, when he ignored me, treated me poorly and blamed me for making him feel bad I felt the worst I have ever felt in my life. I was nervous, anxious, and downright depressed!

  • My friends were annoyed. Clearly this one is linked to the previous. I cannot blame anyone for being so annoyed. I had friends and family telling me…begging me to leave him. Looking at the situation from where I am now, who wouldn’t be pissed off at a friend constantly complaining about the same problems over and over with their disrespectful significant other? No one understood why I was still “wasting my time” with him and honestly I didn’t know why either.

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All I kept saying was, “I love him!”

  • He was more emotional than I was. I swear he had a menstrual cycle and PMS worse than a teenage girl going through puberty! Granted there were times he showered me with love. That is when he was in a good mood or wanted something. If he was in a horrible mood, no matter what the reason, I suffered. Usually, he made it my fault somehow.

  • Efforts were one sided. Based off of the last  number, when he was upset I tried so hard to make him happy. I was always putting forth effort to better our relationship. Who wants to be the only one emitting love? Texts? Plans? He would give only when he felt like it or noticed I was starting to fall out of interest in him.

  • Unwilling to compromise. Never was it halfway. It was always his way or the highway. I heard his thoughts, wants and needs. Was any of that reciprocated? Answer was… at times, when it was beneficial to him!

  • Living in fear created self esteem. The emotional abuse I endured was tremendous. We had our highs and lows. His feelings for me changed randomly. One day he would tell me he loved me the next he would be talking to others. I feared everyday that he would break up with me. Looking back, I wish I would have done the honors.

  • Great sense of speech. As I mentioned before, if I was starting to come to my senses, he knew exactly what to say and when. Every word out of his mouth was meticulous, yet usually a lie. He created some of my weaknesses, knew how to target them and use everything against me.

  • He didn’t “change” until I left. The second I finally called it quits in my heart, he changed his ways (or so he claims). The first time we separated and he finally realized I was done, he flooded me with affection, like I stated he always came back when I was falling away. Unfortunately, he was already with someone else at this time.

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The damage has been done and there’s no going back!

Despite the feelings, emotions and torment I went through for years, this was a blessing in disguise. Why you ask? Well, once I fully separated and cleansed myself of all this I met someone so incredible! Someone who supports me, loves me unconditionally(which sadly is really hard for me to accept from how I was treated), and tells me how beautiful I am daily. Isn’t this what all of us are looking for? So, when people told me there are many fish in the sea or that there were great guys who will love and treat me with the respect I deserve, they were correct! 

I FOUND HIM! WE FOUND EACH OTHER:)

The first day we met we instantly fell in love! A couple months later, as I was driving to grab us some food, I realized mid drive that I was driving all by myself. Now this sounds funny to say. It sounds funny to read! If anyone knew me and my past relationship they would know that I didn’t feel comfortable leaving to get gas or even to go to work! I was fearful that he would be talking to someone else like I caught him numerous times before. That fear is something from the past!

I have someone who loves, respects and adores me! Who allows me to do those things I love and they help me which betters us!!! But that is for another post:)

I know this is a difficult topic and many women struggle with this. The amount of times I had thought about leaving to better myself, I couldn’t. Don’t beat yourself up. Do not ever lower your self love. Yet, as many told me before “You will not change unless you are ready.” Be kind to yourself and make sure you have positive support. Even if it is with a professional.

Hypnotherapy is a great way to gain more self love and confidence to aid in these situations! Head here for more information! Click Here!

Make sure to comment below. Hearing other’s situations or hearing our own stories as we write it can help us release or clarify what we are dealing with.

 

XoXo,
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4 TIPS TO USE WHEN YOU’RE GROWING SPIRITUALLY, YET YOUR PARTNER MAY NOT BE

By Jenna Clark

To all you spiritual gangsters out there, I hear ya!

Growing spiritually, or in other terms awakening your spirit is miraculous.

This is something that I have been deeply working on for the past couple of years. Spirituality is something that I steered away from because of growing up as a Catholic. Not that anything is wrong with this it just turned me off to any church and religion.

I was driven to other avenues and started Yoga Teacher Training. It was life changing! I will have to go more in depth at a later time. I have noticed as I raise my vibration people around me fall out of the picture. Which is very heartbreaking and I am someone who wants to fix things. I am realizing that, not that anyone is better than another, it is a good thing for some to fall away. This allows room for people who are also in the same mindset. Even though some that I felt would be around forever leave other’s start to come into your life who are healthier and a lot more powerful in mind!

Waking up and opening your eyes to Spirituality is fun and exciting.

You get to know who you are on a deeper level as well as the world around you. This is EPIC!

Since, I was a young girl I always felt like there was so much more in life. I never felt like I fit in and always thought deeper than my schoolmates and loved ones around me. I am starting to find others like me, including one of my teachers, Gabby Bernstein!

It is one of the toughest situations starting to grow and become closer to who you are. Your surroundings begin to change, your awareness and those around you start to shift and possibly leave.

For my personal journey, I am beginning to see that I am at this point. Losing those that I thought were my friends and it is also testing my current relationships.

So, how can you better yourself and grow yet also maintain a relationship?

Honestly, I can’t say.

Sorry, I am in the same spot as you may be. BUT! I have some tips that may help you out.

To begin,

Remember that you loved each other for non-spiritual reasons in the first place.

I am pretty sure when you first saw your mate, you were drawn to them for different reasons like similar hobbies, events, or love.

Eventually, you fell so deeply for this person and now we are here!

PS: you may be going through a spiritual awakening or growing, yet that does NOT change anything about your relationship. It was already built before this new you!

On to the next,

Do NOT ever ever ever ever ever think lesser of them.

Once I started learning about healthier eating habits and life choices I shoved it down everyone’s face. I really lost a lot of “friends”. Whoops.

It is great knowledge. It is exciting and enjoyable. Some people are just not ready for its awesomeness. Which is FINE!

I am guilty. Looking down on those around me because their vibration wasn’t raised or raising like mine. I didn’t mean it in a mean way though. In my heart, I just wanted them to have a bite out of the spiritual cookie and enjoy life too.

This is a great time to reflect back on the religious figures, in whatever religion you choose not bias here, and remember how their stories were written.

They preformed incredible miracles and were so vibrationally powerful. Yet, they still lived amongst the poor and healed those who may not have been deserving in other’s minds. Remember to keep yourself humble and grounded.

Invite them to do the new things you enjoy.

Have you ever just asked if they wanted to participate? I may have been judgemental towards my ex- boyfriend when I started to practice yoga. “He totally should be doing this, I feel so much better after and gain more flexibility.” Did I ever ask him?

Maybe once or twice. Looking back now I know that my words were wrapped in fear and judgement. I was judging myself and reflecting it upon him. I felt I couldn’t ask him to join me in my weird voodoo witchcraft because he wouldn’t love me anymore.

Hault! Put on the breaks!

This attitude, this mindset, was all a reflection on my own feelings. There are times now his friends tell him about an issue they are having and he refers them to me. He loves me for me! Even if he calls my actions voodoo or that I am his little witch. I am now comfortable in who I am and what I am doing that I embrace it!

Reminder: we are individuals. Haven’t we been told time and time again to be our own person. Not to conform? Well that is pretty much what you are asking. So Stop it!

Don’t push the issue.

I am definitely not saying to not talk. This is you. You must be open, calm, loving, and inviting. It can hurt when they reject you. Do Not Take Things Personally.

(Read the Four Agreements)

Spirituality is not like a religion that pins you with a responsibility to convert every person you know and meet.

Spirituality is a very personal journey, and if the one you love doesn’t want to join in this adventure, don’t push the issue.

I was feeling upset about this topic, yet with just a small amount of willingness to let go I have been able to separate from feeling offended and judged by my ex-boyfriend. I practice this with my fiance now and I have seen changes in him because I am practicing patience and kindness towards him and myself.

What a beautiful thing!

Until next time Lovelies!

XoXo,

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11 HELPFUL TIPS TO INTENSIFY ROMANCE, LOVE, AND INTIMACY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

By Jenna Clark

No matter if you are dating or not this is great information to help intensify romance, love and intimacy within any kind of relationship.

Why?

Well, glad you asked. Let me tell you, this is a total different era we are living in.

Over the holidays I went to my grandparent’s house. It was recently their 58th Wedding Anniversary! That is extremely impressive!

The love story that is entwined to them is miraculous to say the least. Back in the day love was real. It seems as if we live in an age of internet love connections, instant hookups and grass is greener mindset.

However!

There is evidence, relationships, to suggest that we are looking for romance! Always have been. So, the search of old-time love at least exists. We are bombarded by disinformation.  It’s no wonder that Tinder is so popular as a way to simply bypass the complications of love, reducing them down to our primal urges.

“Back in the day, the courting process was beautiful!”

People wrote one another poetry and long adoring letters. They wanted intimacy, attraction, and magic. Wanderlust

There is no reason to believe that we have drastically changed, even if our focus is greatly influenced by sex and body image.

Thankfully, longtime research combined with common sense can bring us closer to finding romance, as well as rekindling your current relationships.

Here are 11 timeless pieces of advice on finding an intimate relationship.

  1. If you are interested in someone, TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW THEM. I totally get it when someone is extremely attractive and hormones are on overdrive. Chances are they are definitely used to compliments. Instead of complimenting their looks, ask them questions that will grow your bond.
  2. The power of human touch. There is a certain art to increasing the passion with one another. Certain tantric principles suggest getting to know every ounce of your partner’s body helps join you in physical love.
  3.  If you have read countless articles, sites, books on how to make love like a champ, SHOW THEM WITH YOUR ACTIONS.
  4. Being too critical. Let’s not get to over zealous. It is easy to criticize especially those you are very close to. The next time you feel the urge to pop out with some critical comment about your partner, stop, express your gratitude instead. Look for a positive when all you may be faced with is negatives.

CHOOSE TO FORGIVE.

5.Get together for a cup o coffee or tea. It has been said that you can get to know someone deeper over a warm drink.

6.LAUGH. Women and men both want a partner that they can grow old with. If you are not interested in each other when you are young why would you want to sit next to that person when your older? Successful dates are when laughter is most involved.

7.Body Image. Women and men are both guilty of obsessing over appearances. It doesn’t matter how much cellulite or the size of your penis. When looking for a partner, most people are more concerned with how attentive the other person is than their body.

8.LISTEN. Like Link’s fairy we must listen, rather than waiting for our turn to speak. Actually engage in what your lover or potential lover has to say. It’s called eye contact!

9.If you have a serious disagreement, DO NOT ACCUSE. Also, there is no need to criticize and for sure to withhold any love. Take time. Go to a quiet place to talk about problems that will resolve issues to make you stronger as a couple. No resentment zone.

10.Let’s take it back to the era of love. Who doesn’t love receiving a heartfelt letter? Even be more romantic and send it via snail mail! It doesn’t matter if you live in the same home. To see your own handwriting, thoughts, and feelings is something truly special. It worked then, it will work now.

11.DO NOT BE AFRAID OF INTIMACY. It is the most amazing thing to feel intimate with another. Embrace it! Yes, intimacy makes us vulnerable. It can be scary opening up to someone especially if we have been hurt in the past. You might get hurt again. Though, you will never truly know unless you try. I finally opened up to my boyfriend and let me tell you intimacy is blissful and so breathtaking. Never knew you could feel such ecstasy. So Dive in!

It is such a powerful feeling to be with someone you love. Intimacy is a wonderful thing and everyone deserves it. Make sure to witness your self worth and also living in love.

xoxo,

 

 

Self-Love: Become Your Own Soul Mate

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Over the years I have been on a downward spiral of depression, loneliness and addictions. Within the past two years I have been working towards something I have heard a lot about yet never knew how to achieve it or what the fuck those guru people were talking about. That is correct. I am talking about SELF-LOVE.

Is it real? Yes.

Is it obtainable? Yes.

Is it really a life changer? Yes.

I am not sure when it began, yet I really noticed my low self esteem and neediness for outside attention within my high school career. My addiction  to relationships and attention from anyone grew. I was unaware.

Now, a relationship is NEVER the answer to loneliness and especially not to receive attention. Yet, who is around us to tell us that when we are 10 years old. The feelings of emptiness, unhappiness, depression and self-hate took over my body and mind without me even being aware of it.

I have to say, looking at my life as an outsider you would never see or even imagine the inner turmoil I was going through. It is really hard to explain as well if you have never felt this way yourself.

 

 

“Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”
― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

I am not saying this goes for everyone, though for myself I would be in a relationship the beginning is euphoric. We are inseparable and looked at as a “power couple.” I was already picking out wedding dresses, homes, and what we were going to be naming our first child.

It never failed a couple months to some years down the road the relationship inevitably began it’s total self destruction. It may have not been the same problem. Yet, it literally felt just like the last break up. These were deeply rooted ingrained patterns.

Most people tend to create a new relationship based not on what they really want, but in what they perceive they are lacking. We look outside of ourselves to become happy. “When I find Someone, I will be happy, satisfied, fulfilled…..Fill in the blank”.

I know a lot of people may be able to relate that when we do find that “special” someone, it is exciting and breathtaking for a few months or years. This is a band aid. Those horrible monsters from our past start to poke their ugly heads from the sewers and from under our beds. Yet, they are not Mike Wazowski and Sulley from Monster, Inc.

We start blaming our partners for our loneliness, depression, self-hate and our unhappiness. We may even start to resent and hate our partner. Our partner may do the same to us.

Our relationships are mirror images of how we feel of ourselves.

This is not what you were looking for!

Let me hit it to you straight. Something I am still battling with everyday. NOTHING outside of ourselves, no relationship, no food, no drug, no alcohol….NOTHING will bring you true happiness, fulfillment or peace of heart.

You are your own hero, your own lover, your own answer to all of your prayers, and your own TRUE LOVE.

So, what the fuck do you do?

I’ve heard it time and time again from every damn self help book out there. “Can’t love anyone unless you love yourself first”. Okay. So, how do I love myself. I think I do.

Well, today is the day to become your one true love! Start to love every aspect of yourself, including the dark ones. Start to appreciate and love YOU. Your personality, your face, your crazy hair, your body, your mind; become your own best friend.

Find out what nourishes your soul, be it a walk in the park, painting, writing, reading, exercising, yoga, singing, etc. 

 

Start to embrace all that you are.

Stop looking to the outside to fill up your love tank. YOU are the treasure you have been looking for. So, stop your searching lovely!

Now to find ways to start your self-love journey. Honestly, I am still on mine and finding new ways that I am okay with. I have tried many that didn’t work for me. Or that I did for a while yet then fell off and slid right back into self-sabotage and hatred towards myself.

Begin by nurturing yourself. If you are like me you enjoy making others happy. You again are going outside of yourself to find “love”. Take time for yourself and tell people “NO”. What do you like to do? Start small and make sure to honor your time.

Meditate!

This is an incredible way to increase trust and love within yourself.

Begin with just 2 minutes of silence. This does not mean you can’t have things floating in your mind. Just breathe.

You can never be lonely when you actually listen, breathe, talk and feel your own spirit. The easiest way to get there is by meditating. Deep soul searching is met by meditating.

Once you find who you truly are and where you want to be is when a relationship will be satisfying. Only when two people have found themselves and are willing to see that they are individual souls that come together for their own journeys, their own thoughts, and their own lessons. Never be afraid that someone will leave you or go away. People have their own free will. A slave cannot be in a loving relationship.

Two free people in a relationship can soar.

If you are in a relationship or not, allow both of you to be free. Let them shine. Let you shine. You are the transformation the world needs to see. Both of you have your own journey to follow and pursue. You must have soul freedom and stop behaviors that are energetically demanding, fearing and draining.

There are people that are placed within our lives for specific reasons. Usually to teach us a new way. They are our angels on our path that brings us awareness to the areas we need to shed love and light on. We also are put into their lives so that we can also shed some light in areas that might be buried deep inside.

If you work on yourself you will begin to notice relationships, situations and life will change drastically around you.

If you currently are not with someone you will attract some one who vibrates at the same level as you are. You will attract better relationships in general as well as situations within your work, family, friends, etc. You cannot change anyone you can only change yourself.

Surround yourself with people, things, and thoughts with high vibration. These will give off light and love which will strengthen and nourish you. These are the connections you have always dreamed of, which are all possible now that you have found YOU!

For more help, take a look at Gabrielle Bernstein‘s titles Spirit Junkie, May Cause Miracles, and Add more -ing to your life. These are the newest self help books I have undergone for 2016 and she is magnificent! I also recommend her Miracle Membership!

XoXo,

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