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Can Yoga Benefit Your Relationship?

Yoga is fantastic for self care, both physically and mentally. Yet, practicing yoga can also benefit your relationship with your partner as well! I hear it all the time “Relationships are hard work” they can be yet when you take care of yourself it makes everything else easier.

Something that helps you to regain your strength and ground you back to your true self is Yoga!

Seeking authentic intimacy with your partner, you open yourself up to give pieces of you to them. While this can strengthen your relationship, it can also be very ungrounding to your own energy. By practicing yoga, youll be able to focus on your self-care, which will in turn help create a healthy relationship for you and your partner.

Self-care is very important to a healthy relationship because it allows you to still feel connected to your true self. I notice that many people loose themselves when they enter a relationship. Here are some reasons why you should continue practicing yoga to benefit your relationship!

Yoga Grounds You

Things can get heated when you are in a relationships. In order to stay calm, yoga can ground you. This way you do not fly off the handle when things start to get rough and you say and do things you might not mean.

Beach yoga sunYoga Connects You to Your True Self

Being in a relationship can be challenging since you have to deal with another person, their needs, wants and especially their moods. Buy yoga keeps you connected to yourself so that you are less likely to be judgey, reactive or even defensive in your relationship.

Yoga Gets You Out of Your Comfort Zone

If you are hesitant about anything in your relationship, yoga will help you get out of your comfort zone so that you can experience true intimacy with your partner. It helps nudge you to get uncomfortable and outside of your head so that you can truly give yourself entirely to your relationship.

Yoga Opens Up Your Compassion

By practicing yoga, you will be more open to compassion. When Your relationship is in need of compassion you will be able to open your heart. You will b e less likely to get mad over the little things and will have more compassion for your parther, thus strengthening your relationship in general.

Yoga Makes You Feel Stronger

Love has it’s ups and downs. Practicing yoga regularly will help you feel stronger than ever! You will be able to weather the inevitable. Make sure to always utilize supplements to help enhance our internal health.

Yoga Makes You More Grateful!

Yoga has a way of making you more grateful for everything in your life. You will feel in tune with yourself and your universe. You will see your partner in grateful light and be happy to have them. Gratitude will allow your relationship to grow and evolve into something amazing!

Yoga Gets Your Endorphins Flowing

Yoga and exercise in general will get your endorphins flowing so that you feel better. This allows you to be able to contribute more to your relationship so that you are in a better mood all the time. You will be genuinely happy and yoga can keep that positive feeling going strong.

Yoga Makes You Feel Great

When practicing yoga you feel good and when you feel good, your partner and relationship flourish. You will be practicing self-care while also nurturing your relationship at the same time.

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Now, I feel guilt, more anxiety and the overwhelming feeling that I failed yet again. Well, also feeling bloated and upset that I am not looking like a IFBB pro, how do I get so out of control?

Can you relate?

This is emotional eating. It happens more than you may think. It isn’t about clearing out the fridge like Kirby with one breath in. It is when you find yourself eating for reasons other than satisfying your actual physical hunger.

I do not believe that it is solely our fault. Marketing for food companies constantly strive to build a connection between food and our emotions. We are promised an emotional benefit beyond the food itself which is closely linked to comfort, excitement, even belonging.
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The Anxiety Starts To Take Over…

The anxiety starts to take over and I can feel this persistent nagging within in my belly. A flutter in my chest and my mind is feeling like it is running at Ludacris speed. I begin to pick at my nails, jump from social media app to social media app, stopping myself after a few minutes to try and focus so that I can write. I took a couple of hours off from work today. So that I could write a blog post and here I am looking up other things and wasting time.

Building with pressure in my chest!

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What does it mean

to be an

Emotional Eater?

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I thought that was just a phrase that was hyped by media.
[/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_blurb title=”Love Yourself” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”%%141%%” icon_color=”#b09b6d” icon_placement=”left” _builder_version=”3.9″ header_font=”Montserrat|500|||||||” header_line_height=”1.8em” body_font=”Montserrat|300|||||||” body_font_size=”17px” body_line_height=”1.8em” border_color_all_image=”#” animation_style=”fade”]Emotional Eating is there to try to release you from when you are feeling any kind of discomfort. It provides a momentary sense of pleasure and satisfaction when you are not feeling the greatest. Yet, why are you not feeling well? Overeating has a numbing, softening effect on our unwanted feelings. Love Yourself. When your emotions go awry what are some things you can do to take care of yourself in a loving manner? I choose journaling. I write about how I am feeling and what may be causing these issues.

It is OK to feel sad, mad, depressed, scared, exhausted, etc. Welcome the feelings to flow through you. Do not try to shove them down and cover them like they do not exist. Approach them with kindness and love. Your body will begin to shift and understand that it is no longer distressed and needing to overeat. Bonus – through listening to your emotions, you are more likely to discover what is truly bothering you allowing you to create new ways to satisfy these cravings.
[/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_blurb title=”Put Yourself First” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”%%141%%” icon_color=”#b09b6d” icon_placement=”left” _builder_version=”3.9″ header_font=”Montserrat|500|||||||” header_line_height=”1.8em” body_font=”Montserrat|300|||||||” body_font_size=”17px” body_line_height=”1.8em” border_color_all_image=”#” animation_style=”fade”]Make yourself the priority in life! Take time to relax, spend time doing the things that energize you and make sure you are allowing yourself small pleasures throughout the day.
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Use the power of suggestion to create long term improvement

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Hypnotherapy provides an effective way to access your ability to affect your physical body.  We self-sabotage with our thoughts and behaviors. Through the guided meditations you will notice correcting of restless sleep, low energy, headaches and chronic pain. Can even use hypnotherapy to increase motivation to exercise and eat properly!

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  • Do you eat more when you’re feeling stressed?
  • Do you eat when you’re not hungry or when you’re full?
  • Do you eat to feel better (to calm and soothe yourself when you’re sad, mad, bored, anxious, etc.)?
  • Do you reward yourself with food?
  • Do you regularly eat until you’ve stuffed yourself?
  • Does food make you feel safe? Do you feel like food is a friend?
  • Do you feel powerless or out of control around food?

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Change that lasts a lifetime!

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How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours – Wayne Dyer

 

Relationships are everywhere. Work, home, pets, friends, family… Everywhere you look, turn, and run there are relationships there to support you or there are relationships there to dethrone you.

Something that has been difficult for me to understand and grasp fully, is that you can never control the other person. You may not understand or know how the other person is feeling. You can’t always understand why the person does what they do. You can’t dictate how they react. Most importantly You Cannot Change The Past.
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Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home.. it’s your responsibility to love it, or change it

-Chuck Palahniuk

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It broke me.

I kept going back and kept thinking there was something wrong with me. I felt that this person, just like I was doing for them, had my best interest at heart.

I would only feel secure when he showed me affection. When it was absent I would spiral into deep dark depression thinking “What am I doing wrong to not receive his love?” Yet, as I look back his love was only empty promises, empty lines, empty “I love you’s”, “I will never leave you”, “You are everything to me”

Then, after the second time I caught him speaking to one of his exes, I realized how I was walking on eggshells. How I was living a fraction of my life. Most of it in fear. The other half in false hope. Every time we would break up, or I felt the strength to walk away, I would come back because I wanted to feel that love, appreciation, affection. Only to feel like I had made the worst decision and wondering if he was messaging anyone else.
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Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go – Hermann Hesse

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I remember the times we would separate or argue. I wasn’t able to eat, sleep, I felt scared, and I felt alone. I know I had so many people in my “corner” telling me how this was better for me and he had done me a favor. All I could think of was how desperate I felt to get him back or figure out why I wasn’t good enough for him.

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section][et_pb_section bb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.0.106″ custom_padding=”32px|0px|6px|0px” prev_background_color=”#000000″ next_background_color=”#000000″][et_pb_row custom_padding=”|||” custom_margin=”|||” _builder_version=”3.0.105″][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Title” _builder_version=”3.0.106″ text_font=”Montserrat|300|||||||” text_font_size=”16px” text_line_height=”1.8em” header_font=”||||||||” header_2_font=”Montserrat|500|||||||” header_2_text_align=”center” header_2_font_size=”30px” header_2_line_height=”1.4em” header_4_font=”Montserrat|500|||||||” header_4_font_size=”20px” text_orientation=”center” max_width=”700px” module_alignment=”center” animation_direction=”right”] I was scared to be alone. I was scared of only having myself. I didn’t have many close friends any more due to isolating myself throughout the relationship. Also, loosing many disapproving friends. Though, through these times I would start to work on myself. Lean on books by Louise Hay, Gabby Bernstein and Wayne Dyer. Started exercising, eating well and feeling much happier. Which is usually when the timing came for him to come right back into my world.

Finally the end…

It was December 2015, he was distant, abrasive, and short with me. He stayed out with “friends” and slept on the couch. The inevitable happened. He broke it off with me. I remember that Thursday night. Crying and begging him to work on things and that I was sorry for whatever I may have done. That Friday morning driving his kids to school saying goodbye for good, my things in tow.

Not realizing that this definitely a God send.
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There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go – Jessica Hatchigan

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So this is where I am – trying to make sense of things that don’t make sense. Working with a therapist and trying to use other outlets, such as blogging, to help release these negative thoughts and hopefully reaching someone else. Maybe shedding some light to others that are close to me. Which when reading this they will go “That is why you are doing that” It is me trying to be strong and transparient, loving and compassionate, supportive and brave for all those other struggling with similar situations.
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Some Days Are Just Bad Days, That’s All…

Depression is not something to take lightly. This is a disease of the brain. Experts believe that there are certain chemicals that falter out of balance to cause this disease. Over 350 million people worldwide suffer from depression. That isn’t including those who have not spoke to anyone.

Good News is that this is a disease that can be managed and worked with using less invasive techniques. Which we will go over within this blog.
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over minor things
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How does clinical hypnotherapy treat depression?

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Use the power of suggestion to create long term improvement

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Hypnotherapy provides an effective way to access your ability to affect your physical body.  We self-sabotage with our thoughts and behaviors. Through the guided meditations you will notice correcting of restless sleep, low energy, headaches and chronic pain. Can even use hypnotherapy to increase motivation to exercise and eat properly!

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Change that lasts a lifetime!

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Do you feel excited to wake up, walk to your kitchen and brew that morning cup of coffee?

 

Does it make you feel perkier or more at home smelling that freshly brewed cup of java?

Let us be honest for many (including myself) that morning cup of Joe is a treasured ritual. Yet, when one cup becomes two… then three, then a pot, even more this feels more like an addiction than a “treat”.

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In no way am I here to demonize this outstanding treasure.

There have even been studies showing that the benefits outweigh the risks. Though if your coffee controls you and the experience of not drinking coffee is painful, there may be more downsides for you.

So, Let us talk about the good, the bad and also some solutions for those who want to bring in the reigns of this addicitve jitter juice.

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Coffee & Sleep

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A good night sleep helps you heal. Having a restful sleep activates your body’s own regenerative abilities. This time allows your body to repair and restore itself.

Yet, coffee (because of caffeine) can be the enemy of a restful slumber.

One Study measured sleep quality when people consume 400mg of caffeine (which is about a venti from Starbucks) at bedtime, 3 hours before bedtime and 6 hours before bedtime. All groups experienced a statsitcally lower amount of sleep.

SO!

Even that mid-afternoon pick me up may be disrupting the restfulness and quality of your zzz’s.

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Coffee & Your Adrenals

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How does the cup of Joe effect your mojo? Well, when you drink caffeine, neurons are triggered within your brain. Your adrenal glands start pumping out adrenaline.

Adrenaline is what is used for our “fight or flight” response. This is fantastic for when we need to lift a car off of an injured person or run away from a saber tooth tiger. Though if you are sitting at your desk sorting through your emails, probably not.

When Adrenaline wears off, you’re left feeling, moody, anxious, and wiped out. What  do we do then? Duh! More Caffeine please! Sometimes if we can’t get caffeine we move to sure or any other stimulant you can find.

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Adrenal Exhuastion

 

This stops our little glands from doing their many jobs, which include: producing other essential hormones, boosting the immune system, regulating the health of your body tissues and balancing blood sugars.

Similar to an alcoholic, coffee drinkers need more and more caffeine over time to get the same boost. Welcome to adrenal burnout!

Symptoms of burnout: constant low blood sugar, depressions, fatigue, allergies, joint and muscle pain, even chronic infections.

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Good News!

These symptoms of burnout and adrenal exhaustion can be remedied! How you ask? Well simple, if it is caused by too much caffeine you just need to eliminate EXCESSIVE stimulants and stresses on the body. If you can keep your intake to one to two cups of caffeinated coffee a day, you probably won’t experience the roller coaster.

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4 Tips To Reduce Caffeine:

*Drink a green juice before enjoying your cup of coffee. The more juice you drink, the fewer outside stimulants you will need to feel energized.

*Drink green or white tea after you’ve met your 2 cup limit. The relatively small amount of caffeine within these drinks will definitely help you transition.

*Try cacao (raw chocolate). It contains small traces of caffeine. Add it to your smoothie or juice!

*Brew up something tat mimics the taste of coffee. Teeccino or Dandy Blend are great herbal substitutes!

 

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What is Leaky Gut Syndrome, or Intestinal Permeability, is a condition in which the lining of the small intestine becomes damaged, causing undigested food particles, toxic waste products and bacteria to “leak” through the intestines and flood the bloodstream”

Anyone hearing this description about their own intestines might be a little alarmed, but this is becoming an extremely common condition thanks to the varying foods we all eat, the busy lifestyles we lead, and even some medications we might be taking for other ailments.

Nevertheless, there are many tips available to help heal Leaky Gut Syndrome, and to have a healthier lifestyle over all.
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Try an elimination diet

Eliminating certain foods that are commonly known to cause problems, like dairy, soy and gluten, can help to pinpoint which foods are triggering problems with the gut; thus letting you know which foods to avoid in the future. Going through the elimination period for two weeks can make a world of difference to mind, body and soul! Furthermore, by keeping a food diary of what you eat, and then paying close attention to how your body reacts and keeping notes on that, you can be much more strategic with what you remove from your diet, and what you reintroduce.

If you feel bloated, fatigued, or gassy, add that food to your elimination list. “Most likely,” says Lipski, “your gut is telling you what foods it is sensitive to. You just need to listen.”
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Work on reducing your stress

Research has shown that stress can affect us physically as well as emotionally. In relation to Leaky Gut Syndrome, stress is a common cause; it increases fatigue and interrupts sleep, which the body needs to heal itself. Luckily, there are lots of ways to reduce stress with these small steps – go for a 10 minute walk, take a quiet moment with the some herbal tea before bed, or even just sit by yourself quietly for 15-20 minutes. All of these strategies have been proven to reduce stress and will help improve any stomach issues you’re experiencing.
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Hydrate!

You hear it everywhere you go – drink 8 to 10 glasses of water a day, stay hydrated, water is good for your skin and your digestive system. Well it’s all true, and it’s one of the easier things to do when you’re stuck at home dealing with a tricky gut, going back and forth to the bathroom.
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Leaky Gut Syndrome is extremely treatable, and it starts with what you do at home, including changes to diet, physical and mental lifestyle, and even changing to a different painkiller.

These are only a few of the tips available to help heal Leaky Syndrome, and ideally if you think you have any of the symptoms (bloating, food sensitivities, headaches, fatigue) and are unsure of how to deal with them, then you should consult your local GP.

 

XoXo,
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First you might be thinking… What the hell is meditation? Isn’t that for gurus and yogis, which potentially are the same exact thing? Well yes sort of. Though meditation is also for everyone!

Meditation is not as difficult as you may think. Also, with a regular practice it offers immense benefits.
Yeah right… Like what?

So glad you asked!

Some benefits include:

increased brain density,

a boost in connections between neurons,

my personal fav is obvi decreased symptoms of depression and anxiety,

improved clarity of thought,

and an increase of happy endorphin to feel awesome!

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One of the easiest ways is to find a quiet place where you can close your eyes and begin some breathing techniques. Breathing techniques are the shit and probably my favorite technique in life. You can always drop some stress by using Pranayama. Learn it, Live it, Love it!

As you continue these techniques and become more seasoned at meditation, you will likely notice significant improvements in your energy, health and mental/emotional balance.

Here are just a couple of other methods:

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XoXo,

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[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”About” _builder_version=”3.0.105″ custom_padding=”90px||0||false|false”][et_pb_row custom_padding=”|||” custom_margin=”|||” _builder_version=”3.0.105″][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ parallax=”off” parallax_method=”on”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Title” _builder_version=”3.12.2″ text_font=”Montserrat|300|||||||” text_font_size=”16px” text_line_height=”1.8em” header_font=”||||||||” header_2_font=”Montserrat|500|||||||” header_2_text_align=”center” header_2_font_size=”30px” header_2_line_height=”1.4em” text_orientation=”center” max_width=”700px” module_alignment=”center” animation_direction=”right”]To understand how to treat depression we must first touch base on what Depression truly is.

Honestly, it is different for everyone.

Recently I finished reading a book by Jenny Lawson named Furiously Happy it really opened my eyes. This book explained to me many things that I have personally dealt with and what others struggle with even more than I ever have.

I realized that this illness isn’t like breast cancer or leukemia. It isn’t treated this way either. Once someone gets out of a depression spell no one is there to cheer them on or tell them what an inspiration they have been.

Then, just like that, the depression, numbness, feeling alone, anxiety and nervous feelings are back for round two. Making sure they lie to you to make you feel worthless and sometimes think of really horrible things to do to yourself.

Sometimes depression can be brought on because of a distressing or traumatic event. If this is the case, then it is more then likely that the people and situations who are associated become referred to as traumatic triggers.

A common example of this is when someone we love passes. The individual must take proper time to grieve their loss and to process unfinished feelings about the deceased. Depression may set in almost immediately.

 
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favorite activities
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over minor things
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and insomnia
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Other traumatic triggers include losing a job, divorce, or financial reversals such as bankruptcy or home foreclosures. There are so many symptoms (seriously, I am not sure how much I trust WebMD yet I linked it anyway) that can arise from depression’s clutches. As I stated above it honestly differs for everyone. Some of the symptoms that I am challenged with are

Not being able to wake up and get out of my bed

Anxious thoughts upon waking that put me in a whirlwind of depression

Body pains that occur daily and increase with my thoughts

Eating disorders

Feeling exhausted

Extreme emotions, mostly intense crying at everything

I have also had suicidal thoughts in high school.

A lot of people have used prescribed medications. Anti-depressants, sleep medications, maybe diets Yet, these are all just symptom relief.

Some go to counselors. They will talk about their feelings which may help for awhile. Other therapists may try relaxation techniques combined with positive affirmations.

Unfortunately, these still do not resolve the deeper underlying causes of depression.

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So, How does clinical hypnotherapy treat depression, you ask? 

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Well, that doesn’t sound like somewhere I want to go!

I’ll tell you this. It is extremely relaxing and enjoyable. The conscious mind is only 10% of the mind. By entering our subconscious we are addressing the whole person, 100% of our mind than just treating symptoms.

 
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Unresolved feelings, such as resentments, regrets, blame, anger, guilt, jealousy, and fear are stored in the body and must be released as soon after the triggering event as possible. Otherwise they become deeply buried beneath the numbness, addictive behaviors, and the concurrent repression that occurs when trauma and grief go untreated.

 

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With each session clinical hypnotherapy can help replace the fearful repetitive thoughts. Creating positive affirmations will work because the underlying emotional release has been accomplished. Bringing you peace and balance.

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Hypnotherapy provides an effective way to access your ability to affect your physical body.  We self-sabotage with our thoughts and behaviors. Through the guided meditations you will notice correcting of restless sleep, low energy, headaches and chronic pain. Can even use hypnotherapy to increase motivation to exercise and eat properly!

Clinical hypnotherapy works for depression because it removes the underlying basis of depression and completes the unfinished business that continues to recycle as self-sabotaging thoughts and behaviors. You know what I am talking about.

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Hypnotherapy can be highly successful, painless, and side effect free!

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Four Health Benefits of Marriage

By Jenna Clark

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.

At times married life can be less than exciting and making you feel very testy towards your significant other. Yet, even when your partner is driving you up the wall, it turns out they might actually be improving your health.

It is true! Turns out that those that are married may have the advantage of health benefits over someone who is single. Now, that does not mean that tying the knot automatically creates a happier healthier you. Clearly divorce rates have sky rocketed. Though some studies show that relationships are at the root of finding joy.

 

“Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”
― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Health Benefits Of A Happy Marriage

Numero UnoLower Risk of Cardiovascular Disease. Considering heart disease is one of the main causes of death this is a pretty important factor.

Your stress levels will be lower. It may not seem like it at the time of an argument, but being married actually creates a hormonal change that directly affects stress levels.

Beat it Cancer! This is a bit dramatic yet equally as important, being married boosted survival rates of cancer patients in one study.

You will live longer! Finally, getting hitched could mean that you will live a longer life.

Downside of Marriage

Not to be all against singles by any means. There is one case which marriage doesn’t help: OBESITY. People who tend to be married suffer from higher rates of obesity than singles do. Now we all know obesity is connected to so many health concerns so this can create the opposite affect. It is always important to make healthy choices once you are married.

 

Final Thoughts

  • Being in a safe, stable marriage can help you live longer, reduce risk of heart disease and reduce stress levels.
  • For those with cancer, being in a healthy loving relationship can increase the odds of you living longer.
  • Con of relationships increases your chances of being obese. So make sure to adopt an active, healthy lifestyle and motivate each other!:)

What are some positive benefits within your relationship? Make sure to comment below and also check out How to Identify & Release a Toxic Relationship.

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The Narcissist doesn’t want your love, they don’t know what love is. They want your admiration and your obedience as a player in their fake make-believe world.

This is a topic that hits close to home. As I researched about human behavior, I realized that the Narcissist was someone I used to date. I noticed some of his characteristics that were alarming, yet was not strong enough to leave, I decided to write this blog post to hopefully help out others that may be in the situation I once was in.

To begin,narcissists lack the basics levels of empathy for others. This includes a constant need for validation, a willingness to control people, and a ruthlessness in getting their needs met. That being said, the narcissist thrives on other’s fear.. Narcissists haven’t learned that the only true power is love-of self, others and the universe. And if you have ever fallen in love with someone like this, you know how painful it can be. 

Now painful relationships can be blessings in disguise. They unwrap our deepest wounds for us to heal. They can free us by helping us reclaim our own power.

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So, how do you know for sure if you’re dealing with a narcissist? Here are 9 signs to look for:

  1. A narcissist will often call you “crazy” (and slowly start to convince you that you are!)  They are known to use “gaslighting,” which is a form of psychological abuse used to create anxiety and confusion. Which creates those to lower their own trust in themselves and their ability to discern what is real and what is healthy.
  2. He or she use your personal insecurities or struggles to make you feel not good enough. Personal insecurities that you may not have otherwise been aware of seem to be a constant source of tension and are often pointed out critically and insensitively.

and she was made to appear crazy by the man who drove her there

-r.h. Sin

3. You’re constantly being blamed. It is NEVER their fault! Narcissists don’t accept that they create their own reality. Instead, they are constantly hurt by your behavior and project the blame onto you. Their responses are triggered by unhealed wounds, so they’re trying to relieve pain, subconsciously, through harmful emotional abuse. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.

4. Are they hot and heavy in the beginning… The beginning of the relationship is like all of the scorching scenes in Sex and the City! They are all about you and the relationship seems like a fairy tale. We love being pursued and showered with attention by someone charismatic and charming. Whisk us away Prince!

5. Hot and cold. When they have your trust, they will flip on you, pull back, making you feel crazy. Vulnerability? Ha! That would shatter their poor ego.

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Narcissists will destroy your life and erode your self-esteem and do it with such stealth as to make you feel as YOU are the one that is letting them down.

6. Trophy Complex! Does your love interest seem to always come at the right time? Fixing problems like a hero or heroine? Do they have a sense of false image convincing everyone they are truly better than who they really are?

7. You start feeling obsessive, needy or codependent after spending time with this person. Seriously this one is a huge red flag and I know from experience. An em-path’s light is bright; highly sensitive individuals have a high love quotient. We are always there to love and support. Though if you are feeling obsessive, comparing, needy, codependent and definitely drained, JUMP SHIP!

8. Lashing out and behaving like the narcissist. You’re not being heard so we tend to lash out or become reactive in ways similar to the narcissist themselves. Scary!

9. They are genuinely damaged yet not open to healing. They are phenomenal at appearing they are damaged or need our help. It is not your job to save or fix someone! DO NOT FIX THEM!

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Why are we Attracted to Narcissists?

Well, for one, society does a wonderful job of glamorizing these personality types. The Narcissist is the “charmer.” Feeding off of drama and romanticizing over the pain of love.

Connection through pain is the new sexy. 

If you are attracted closely to Narcissistic patterns, You may have childhood trauma you need to heal.

As we grow, we attract partners who reflect our wounds until we heal them. Deep stuff I know, this we can go over in depth in another blog. We create relationships that mirror our past hurts so vividly that we can no longer ignore them.

These relationships show up over and over. They can be romantic or not. This is true when the relationship feels and has similarities to someone you have dated or been in contact with before yet it is a new relationship. 

Time to get down and dirty on healing those deep seeded pains. 

These are growing opportunities, which can allow us to heal so that we have the ability to move into relationships rooted in love and service.

If we are still trying to prove our worth, we attract narcissists.

How do we get out of this mess?

The way out of a narcissistic relationships is not easy, especially when there are deep feelings from your end. They are also manipulative. Yet, it begins with awareness, which if you are reading this I hope that is enough. Follow the awareness by taking responsibility for our actions and feelings learning how to love ourselves enough to LEAVE. What happens when we blame the narcissist for our pain is that we become even more needy and codependent. They will also make us feel bad about ourselves so that we feel we can never do better.

Blame keeps us trapped!

The narcissist is not responsible for our wounds. They may trigger our wounds. What we decide to do with this information is up to us. It is time to gain self love and rise above!

XoXo,
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